Are you thinking about having the "Dollar Dance" aka "Money Dance" at your reception? Do they still do that today? The answer is Yes! This custom is alive and well and still being done at today's wedding receptions. Originated in Poland around the beginning of the 20th century, this custom has become a traditional event at wedding receptions in various cultures. This custom involves male guests paying to dance briefly with the bride, while the female guest pay to dance briefly with the groom. The purpose for this dance was to give the bride and groom a little extra cash to be used on their honeymoon or to set-up housekeeping.
The dance usually takes place after the First Dance but can be after the garter and bouquet toss. Just make sure your guests have had a chance to sit down and have a few drinks. Once the Best Man or DJ announces the event, traditionally the best man begins dancing with the bride, pinning a sum of money onto the brides gown. Sometimes the money is placed in an apron held by the maid/matron of honor and the best man gives shots of whiskey to the participants as they await to dance.
This is a great way for the bride and groom to have a 30-60 sec meet and greet with their guests and to thank them for coming while making a few extra bucks doing so. As for what kind of songs should be played ~ well that is totally up to you. The Dollar Dance doesn't require special meaning songs like the Father/Daughter dance would, so any song will do.
Now I don't know about you but I did this at my wedding back in 1990's and the money sure did come in handy for ready cash. And I would think that in today's economy everyone could use a little extra ready cash. While everything for the honeymoon has been paid for already there will be however some traveling expenses such as cab fare, drinks on the plane and leaving gratuity to name a few.
But if you are feeling a little uneasy about having a "Dollar Dance" because you think it is tacky to ask your guests to pay out more for your wedding, remember it is their option to dance with you. Usually the sum of money is just a dollar ~ hence the name "Dollar Dance", but could be as much as five to ten dollars. I don't think however that they will be shelling out $100.00 bills, unless they are a very close friend or family member. The "Dollar Dance" tradition has been done for many years and your guests are well accustomed to the ritual.
As always thanks for reading and Have a Great Day!!
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